What is tantra?
Dear reader, if you have ended up on this page, it is probably because tantra triggers you somewhere or makes you curious or because you are looking for beautiful experiences. However, before going any further, I would like to clarify what tantra is really about.
What is tantra not?
Tantra is not sex
If I were to ask you, what do you think of when you hear the word tantra? In 90% of the cases, most people say that tantra has something to do with sex, or maybe some form of sex from India, or Kamasutra or something like that. Those are usually the usual answers. While it is true that there are teachings that pertain to sex and sexuality in the breadth of all that is Tantra, they are by no means the basis of this comprehensive system. The truth is that only 5 to 10% of tantric sexual teachings are about sexuality.
But essentially, tantra is primarily a spiritual science whose original roots go back 5,000 years ago or more. The word “Tantra” itself means a web or matrix and implies that everything in this universe is connected to everything else through energy. Ancient tantrics studied the energies around us and within us, tried to uncover the laws that govern them, and then used them for spiritual evolution—a certain elevation of the mind.
The tantric texts, the ancient texts of India about Tantra, the Agamas, and the Tantras, and many other texts, actually speak of many things, from astronomy to astrology, to the science of colors, sounds, vibrations, and chakras, and kundalini, and meditation, and healing, and geometry, and the list goes on. Simply because all those teachings and all those topics can be understood energetically, and that energy can then be of service to man’s growth towards spiritual realization.
Tantra is not a religion
Tantra is not a religion either. It is a non-denominational spiritual system that can be practiced by anyone, provided the right attitude and dedication.
There are two experiences of religion: exoteric and esoteric. Esoteric means for initiates, in the word esoteric is the Latin word for ‘within’. Exoteric is the opposite, uninitiated, outside.
Religions are exoteric by nature, meaning that they include the outer ring or circle of adherents or participants, it is intended for the masses, the laity,… Tantra, on the other hand, is esoteric – it addresses itself to the inner circle, to the initiates. In short, religions are designed for the masses, and Tantra is designed for a select few.
The tantric scriptures, teachings, and practices have been purposely obscured so that only initiates—those who had demonstrated that they attained certain levels of spiritual achievement—could understand them. Traditionally, the true tantric teachings, at least the authentic ones, were closely guarded and only after long periods of preparation, practice, and purification were passed on orally from master to disciple. Fortunately, these spiritual gems are more widely accessible to modern spiritual seekers than they were in ancient times.
Dogmas and beliefs have no foothold in the tantric tradition. Tantra is instead a “self-science,” a practical study of the self. In other words, the teachings and techniques are transmitted to the practitioner by the master, but ultimately it is up to that person to do his or her own spiritual practice in order to personally reap the benefits and reap the results of the techniques provided.
Where does tantra come from?
There is a great debate about the origins, history, and practice of Tantra.
It probably comes from ancient traditions in India, about 3,000 to 5,000 years ago. At that time, a unique spiritual system was born that provided answers, explanations, and powerful practices regarding energy, deities, the structure of the universe and reality, yoga, philosophy, and metaphysics.
How Tantra Came to the West
It is said that Tantra first made its way to the West in the 19th century, when its philosophical foundations were introduced to curious scholars. In the 1960s and 1970s, the West witnessed the spiritual renaissance and sexual openness of the hippie revolution.
Hippies advocated non-violence, love and were also known for their open-minded attitude towards sexuality, but that does not mean they were tantric.
The sex-positive, sensual paradise that the sexual teachings of Tantra promised became attractive to this generation. From then on, the spiritual dimension of Tantra became more hidden and unknown to those who discovered it, and the sexual approach took over. This distortion remains common to this day, with very few seekers fortunate enough to encounter authentic teachings that address the whole tree and its spiritual roots – not just that one fascinating branch of sexuality.
What is Energy?
Energy is a universal force that is within us and all around us. It is infinite in nature and has enormous potential. The ancient tantrics were very interested in energy because it can be used to help a person develop quickly on the spiritual path.
There are very many different types of energy present in our reality and in the universe: magnetism, electricity, thermal energy, gravity, electromagnetism,…. And whatever energy, regardless of type, ALL energy operates according to and is governed by very definite, specific laws. Unlock and decipher these laws and you will have the master key to controlling and controlling all energy.
For example, take a look at the energy of electricity. Thanks to scientific research, one was able to decipher the laws and re-establish it themselves. Electricity ceased to be an ethereal concept, but became a tangible and sensory entity that could be created on command and at will.
How relevant is this to you?
When everything in and around you is made up of energy – the physical body, money, health, home, emotions, thoughts, love, success, relationships – and the laws that govern all of these different kinds of energy are discovered, a person can essentially become the master of his or her own life.
When this happens, people are no longer victims of chance and attraction, but control, dictate, and create their own lives and with them their own reality and destiny. A person can transcend duality and realize his or her true nature. This is the definition of ultimate freedom and spiritual liberation.
So what does all this have to do with sex?
The sexual energy is just one of many forms of energy—an extremely dynamic, healing, and life-giving form of energy.
Tantrics recognized this, and the sexual energy became another universal force that they not only studied, but also mastered. So not because they were obsessed with sex, but because they were obsessed with enlightenment. Eventually, tantrics discovered that sexual energy is backed by an incredible power that can propel a person to unimaginable spiritual heights when used correctly, and thus the link between sex and spirituality was established.
When a man and woman unite and orgasm is achieved, it gives a very brief glimpse of the divine, our true nature, and our infinite selves. It is a passing moment of enlightenment.
This is such a pivotal moment and yet so fleeting for most that its potential and impact are nil. There must be a way to prolong and extend the orgasmic experience so that this frivolous glimpse into the divine can become a serious conversation with God. And so tantric sex was born.
Chakras
To better understand energy, it is helpful to understand chakras. You could say that chakra science came out of Tantra; There are clear references to the seven chakras in many of the ancient tantric texts written millennia ago.
The seven chakras are not just a vague or abstract new-age concept, but are as real and tangible to tantrikas as their own limbs. These advanced energy centers of the human being serve as antennas with which you can coordinate, resonate, and communicate.
The ancient tantric masters taught how energy worked in people within the prism of the chakras. The chakras are, as it were, channels that make it possible for something that is finite in nature (me as a human being) to gain access to the infinite (universal energy) and that can be harnessed and used for spiritual purposes.
You too can become a real tantric man and woman through clear techniques and guidance and practical knowledge. Then, and only then, can sex and spirituality truly become one.
Tantric sexuality
I just said that sexual energy is one of many forms of energy, but it is one of the most powerful known universal energies. The sexual energy can create life, as you know, and its creative and energetic potential is enormous.
The ancient tantrics also knew this and discovered that if the sexual energy is harnessed in a specific way, it can be used to catapult a person into higher spiritual dimensions and higher states of consciousness. This is why tantric masters studied sexual energy and why it is a recognized tantric path – not because they were obsessed with sex, but because they were obsessed with enlightenment.
These masters were consumed by spiritual realization, and they understood that sexual energy has a unique quality that no other energy bestows. It can work like a nuclear reactor inside a human. If cultivated and used in a specific way, the sexual energy can propel a practitioner to alternate spiritual realities, and ultimately all the way to the Divine. In other words, tantric sex bridges the gap between sex and spirituality and unites them as one.
In addition to being a superior and sacred form of sexuality that is based on tantric energy, tantric sexology practitioners also give access to powerful types of orgasms that are very deep and spiritual in nature. Both men and women learn how to become multi-orgasmic and experience unparalleled sexual pleasure.
Through its practice, men and women can become hyper-aware and hypersensitive to touch, the breath, the presence of energy, vibrations, and subtle nuances in a partner’s emotional state. There is full presence, and sexuality is transformed into an experience of totality. Blissful states can be attained and a tantric wave of continual transcendental, magical, spiritual ecstasy can be achieved, which ultimately transforms your entire being and view of reality. Tantric sex gives rise to a deeper intimacy and connection with ourselves and others.
Tantra Massage
A very intense way to integrate this energy into you and let it become alive is through tantric massage. Tantra Massage is very different from erotic massage and is primarily a spiritual and healing form of massage, using an energetically based and sensual style of bodywork. It is not part of the original tantric texts or teachings, and yet this renowned form of healing therapy provides modern people with a necessary bridge to higher tantric teachings.
In the Somananda Tantra School where I followed, Somananda has put together an efficient treatment based on his extensive experience with tantra and ayurveda that can achieve far-reaching results. Ayurveda is a very holistic, natural and complete healing system with a history of more than 2000 years.
The first few times the Tantra Massage will mainly consist of skin contact and oil will be used. And work is done on activating important trigger and energy points, also called marma points, on the physical body. After some practice, you will have been prepared to move on to the more in-depth and energetic techniques – you will work with prana energy – which leads to a tantric energy orgasm all over the body.
The purpose of a tantra massage is to ‘sublimate‘ the energy, which means moving it from the 3 lowest to the 4 higher chakras. In this way, a higher spiritual level is reached.
This miraculous and inspiring therapy can provide an increase in energy, much better health and even healing, the removal of blockages that are present in all people today, deep sexual satisfaction, revelation of the true sexual potential that all men and women are innate, a resensitization of important pleasure areas, a stepping stone to tantric sex and extraordinary orgasmic experiences, a reset of the emotions, a purification and awakening of the mind.
Thus, it can have a profound and unexpected effect on your health, and it can also remedy common sexual disorders and dysfunctions, such as premature ejaculation, impotence or erectile dysfunction, among many others.
Kashmiri Shaivism
The treatment you will receive is based on Kashmiri Shaivism Tandava. Kashmiri Shaivism represents the most esoteric and exclusive knowledge in Tantra. Masters of this great spiritual path developed high metaphysical teachings that reflected a profound understanding of reality and the universe.
Studying and practicing this secret tantric science creates a strong field of spiritual resonance with the crown chakra—the seat of clarity, detachment, and transcendent higher consciousness—and is a catalyst for profound transformation.
Kashmiri Tantra Massage is a deep, powerful, and sensual massage ritual that can work a deep healing process where awareness, meditation, and sensuality merge. It can give you a better idea of who you really are.
When sexuality, heart, and spirituality unite, we return to wholeness, to our original purity and inherent wisdom. We become free like a soul in a human body. And that's what my work is dedicated to.
Are you interested? Make an appointment!
Do you want to take your sexual energy to the next level and experience how you can become orgasmic throughout your body? Do you want to open your higher chakras with the power of your sexual energy and open the channels for higher self-awareness?
Then maybe a Tantra massage and astral healing is a way for you… Because working with energies is based on polarities, on opposite poles, I can only perform this treatment on women. Unfortunately, this offer is not for men. If you are a woman, you can use this form to make an appointment for a Kashmiri Shaivism Tandava massage.
Allow at least 3 to 4 hours for a session! So keep that in mind in your planning. There is an intake interview, especially the first time. And after the treatment, we take enough time to evaluate. Asking price is 240 €..